Kirby Ingles 
Let’s be real—giving and receiving feedback at work can feel like walking on a tightrope. It’s stressful, nerve-wracking, and can stir up a whole lot of anxiety for both sides. As a leader, you might worry about how your feedback will land—will it be helpful, or will it just create tension? On the flip side, … Read more
Where Am I? Lately, I’ve been asking myself a tough question: Where am I? Not in the physical sense, but in where I stand in my life—my goals, my aspirations, and the person I want to become. This isn’t just a passing thought; it’s a question that has been gnawing at me, demanding an answer. … Read more
When we think about the experiences that shape a veteran’s life, our minds often go straight to the battlefield. We picture the harrowing scenes of combat and split-second decisions between life and death. We also recognize the psychological toll of war. But what if the seeds of a veteran’s struggles were sown long before they … Read more
Why I’m Here For a long time, I’ve been searching for the answer to one fundamental question: Why am I here? What’s my purpose? This question has haunted me for years, and after much reflection and soul-searching, I thought I finally found the answer on November 2nd, 2020. I’m here to get my life together, … Read more
Exploring Thailand’s Heart Thailand beckons travelers with its rich culture, stunning landscapes, and deep spiritual traditions. But beyond the tourist hotspots and well-worn paths lies a deeper, more nuanced experience of the country—one that Carl Weaver masterfully captures in his book The Next Life in the Afternoon: A Journey Through Thailand. In this thought-provoking travel … Read more
Facing the Hard Truth Let’s cut straight to the chase—I’ve been living a lie. I pretend that I have everything figured out and under control. The reality is far different. During a weekly reflection on November 1, 2020, I had a moment of brutal clarity. It wasn’t pretty, but it was necessary. I realized just … Read more
A Path to Healing Moral Injury When it comes to caring for veterans, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. Many veterans carry unseen wounds that go far beyond the physical scars of war. Among these, moral injury stands out as a particularly complex and painful experience. Unlike physical injuries or even Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), moral injury … Read more
Finding Direction For the longest time, I’ve been running on the treadmill of life, moving fast but getting nowhere. Maybe you can relate. We often find ourselves stuck in a routine, pushing forward with no clear direction, hoping that if we just keep moving, we’ll eventually stumble upon the right path. But recently, I had … Read more
When we think about veteran trauma, our minds often go straight to combat. We picture violence, lost comrades, and constant danger. But what if I told you that trauma isn’t confined to the battlefield? For many veterans, moral injury creates some of the deepest wounds. This lesser-known experience can occur both in and outside combat. … Read more
Hiring veterans brings a wealth of experience, discipline, and leadership to the workplace. The transition from military to civilian life can be challenging for veterans. Adapting to new work environments is particularly difficult. Understanding the practical steps for managers can help veterans transition. Learning how to support veteran employees effectively can make a significant difference … Read more