Kirby Ingles 
The author reflects on feeling trapped by past successes and personal deceit, realizing the importance of self-awareness and the courage to confront inner demons. They emphasize the need for stillness, discipline, and accountability to overcome these challenges, suggesting daily meditation and writing as tools to reclaim authenticity and leadership.
Olympic Lessons for Business Leaders Sports have always been more than just a game for me. As a former athlete, an ultra-runner, a wrestler, a baseball player, and now a baseball official, sports have shaped my life, my values, and my approach to leadership. Growing up in the heart of the Midwest, patriotism was ingrained … Read more
It takes immense courage to face the truth about oneself. For years, I’ve been living a lie, portraying an image of discipline, triumph, and balance. But the truth is, I’m far from it. I’ve been living a façade, afraid to show my true self to the world. I wake up daily with this nagging feeling … Read more
Let’s be real—giving and receiving feedback at work can feel like walking on a tightrope. It’s stressful, nerve-wracking, and can stir up a whole lot of anxiety for both sides. As a leader, you might worry about how your feedback will land—will it be helpful, or will it just create tension? On the flip side, … Read more
Where Am I? Lately, I’ve been asking myself a tough question: Where am I? Not in the physical sense, but in where I stand in my life—my goals, my aspirations, and the person I want to become. This isn’t just a passing thought; it’s a question that has been gnawing at me, demanding an answer. … Read more
When we think about the experiences that shape a veteran’s life, our minds often go straight to the battlefield. We picture the harrowing scenes of combat and split-second decisions between life and death. We also recognize the psychological toll of war. But what if the seeds of a veteran’s struggles were sown long before they … Read more
Why I’m Here For a long time, I’ve been searching for the answer to one fundamental question: Why am I here? What’s my purpose? This question has haunted me for years, and after much reflection and soul-searching, I thought I finally found the answer on November 2nd, 2020. I’m here to get my life together, … Read more
Exploring Thailand’s Heart Thailand beckons travelers with its rich culture, stunning landscapes, and deep spiritual traditions. But beyond the tourist hotspots and well-worn paths lies a deeper, more nuanced experience of the country—one that Carl Weaver masterfully captures in his book The Next Life in the Afternoon: A Journey Through Thailand. In this thought-provoking travel … Read more
Facing the Hard Truth Let’s cut straight to the chase—I’ve been living a lie. I pretend that I have everything figured out and under control. The reality is far different. During a weekly reflection on November 1, 2020, I had a moment of brutal clarity. It wasn’t pretty, but it was necessary. I realized just … Read more
A Path to Healing Moral Injury When it comes to caring for veterans, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. Many veterans carry unseen wounds that go far beyond the physical scars of war. Among these, moral injury stands out as a particularly complex and painful experience. Unlike physical injuries or even Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), moral injury … Read more